6 Unique Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas For Your Deployed Partner

Valentine’s Day is around the corner, and we’re here to help you show some extra love to your deployed partner. 

Military couples in deployment – we see you. Finding moments for meaningful connection at a distance is especially hard. It can be daunting to find time to talk, much less keep your relationship exciting and connected when deployment lasts for long stretches of time.

We’ve curated a list of creative gift ideas to make your partner feel special, wherever they may be. Let’s spread the love this season, even from miles apart!

1. “Open When” Letters (or voice notes!) 

Prepare a series of heartfelt letters or voice notes, tailored to specific times or moods your partner may experience during deployment. These personalized messages will serve as a comforting reminder of your love and support. 

Share anecdotes, inside jokes, or words of encouragement to uplift their spirits and keep them connected to you, no matter the distance. Some ideas include:

• “Open When You’re Feeling Proud” (note with celebratory words + silly stickers)
• “Listen When You Miss The Kids” (encouraging voice note with your kids)
• “Open When You’re Feeling Turned On” (perhaps some spicy polaroid pics)

2. “52 Reasons Why” Affirmation Deck

Get creative with a deck of 52 cards, each adorned with a unique reason why you adore your partner. Whether it’s their sense of humor, kindness, or unwavering support, these affirmations will serve as daily reminders of the bond you share. 

Personalize each card with handwritten messages, memories, or shared experiences, creating a tangible expression of your love that your partner can hold onto throughout their deployment. Here’s a guide:

• For “heart” suited cards, share what you think makes them sexy
• For “spade” suited cards, share what you think makes them unique
• For “diamond” suited cards, share what you think makes them thoughtful
• For “clubs” suited cards, share how they impact others in your life

3. A Trio of Date Experiences to spice up your typical video call date

OK- we’re obsessed. Lovewick created a product JUST for long distance couples to help them “go on fun dates’ ‘ virtually, when they’re not able to be together in person.

This product sprinkles some magic on top of your average video call. Imagine your friend curating a fully planned video date that helps you create new memories, learn new skills, and have unique conversations – that’s the vibe! Dates are categorized by:

• Date type (Spicy, Artsy, Games, Crafty, etc.) 
• Date vibe (Calm, Energizing, Sensual, Deep, etc.)

Distance Dates are virtual and under $5 per person per date. Homerun!

4. A “Gap-book”  

Capture the essence of your relationship with a personalized scrapbook designed to “bridge the gap” between you and your partner during deployment. Whether you opt for a digital creation or a handmade masterpiece, this scrapbook will serve as a tangible representation of your love story, providing comfort and joy to your partner whenever they flip through its pages.

Select a theme that reflects your shared experiences and memories, and gather photos, ticket stubs, love letters, and mementos that hold special meaning. We love themes like:

• Our “Gap-book” – moments when I felt most in love with who you are
• Our “Gap-book” – moments when you made me feel special
• Our “Gap-book” – moments when I couldn’t stop laughing

5. Pre-addressed envelopes (with a twist!)

Prepare a set of pre-addressed envelopes, each containing a surprise note or affirmation for your partner to discover. Fill these envelopes with uplifting messages, motivational quotes, or love notes, and add a personal touch by infusing them with your signature scent (spray your perfume or cologne all over it!). Encourage your partner to reciprocate the gesture by filling the envelopes with their own thoughts and reflections, creating a heartfelt exchange of love and support that transcends the distance between you.

6. “Living” Personalized Playlist

Curate a custom Spotify playlist featuring songs that hold special meaning for you and your partner. From the tracks that played during your first date to the ones that make you think of them when they’re away, this playlist is a musical expression of your love. Continuously update it with new songs that resonate with your relationship, allowing it to evolve and grow alongside your bond, even when you’re miles apart. BONUS! Introduce them to new songs that they wouldn’t be exposed to in the place they’re deployed.

These thoughtful and creative gift ideas are sure to make your deployed partner feel cherished and loved on Valentine’s Day and beyond.